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Finding your Best Way to Happiness

February 6th, 2009

We all know that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. When you know your situation and your surroundings very well and have your eyes set on where you want to be, you should look straightly towards it and never lose sight on it. This may be the best way to looking at the opportunity to achieve happiness, but going about it depends entirely on you.

Taking the shortest possible way to happiness may solve the problem, but a lot of the more in-depth experiences can be missed and those experiences can play a major factor in prolonging the happiness that you wish to attain.

So if it isn’t the shortest, then it may very well be the longest, right? Well not necessarily as long ways have a possibility of taking you through so much and in the end throw you off course. Some long ways can lead to serious distractions and ultimately allowing you to lose sight on where you truly want to go.

Finding the best way to happiness is similar to finding the best way to a hidden treasure with the help of a treasure map. With regards to happiness, a map needs to be imagined in your mind. Every map has key points and dividing that pathway to happiness into segments allows you to highlight the areas that need attention and use those areas to springboard you towards that happiness so that it is yours to keep.

There will always be decision making involved and there may be more than one correct answer. Say for example you are not contented with the performance you are doing in school and you are thinking of studying harder. This can be considered the shortest possible solution. But what happens if you try visualizing a map so you can see a better view of your situation? If you do that, you will see your friends and family as key points to aid you in being better in school. You can keep it simple by asking your friends for help and then studying the rest of the way. This way, you will have a better success rate in doing better in school and ultimately becoming happier.

It is important not to get too caught up in your pursuit to happiness. Say we take the same example and you decide to consult both your family and friends and then spend even more time studying by yourself. This is where a possible frustration builds up due to overworking and some confidence can be lost as a result.

It is healthy to keep things balanced so that you go through enough experiences to secure your happiness and at the same time, you don’t stress yourself out in doing too much work to discourage you from finishing what you started.

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