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4 Simple Rules on How to be Happy

October 10th, 2006

Welcome to my blog again.  Some rules to share with you on how to be happy. 

In our eternal quest to find out how to be happy we forget simple joys which really make us happy - a child’s laughter, a raindrop on the cheek, a snowflake on a leaf. Sadness and happiness are different sides of the same coin. The next question is how to be happy?

Follow these simple rules on how to be happy and find the bottomless spring of happiness.

Rule # 1

Disappointments are a part of life. If your life was a smooth straight road with no bumps, how dull and boring your life would be. Do not let disappointment get you down. This is sacrosanct if you want learn how to be happy.

Rule # 2

Learn to laugh at your mistakes and learn from them. Do not dwell over what could have been done. The art of finding out how to be happy is to learn not to repeat your mistakes but learn from them.

Rule # 3

Swallow your pride.  Learn to say sorry if you have made a mistake which is an open secret on how to be happy.

Rule # 4

If you want to really learn how to be happy then give more than you take. Once you learn to be selfless, the doors of happiness will automatically open for you.

Remember, happiness without pain is like sun without sunshine.

A Way to Happiness

October 9th, 2006

Here are more tips on how to be happy.

Is happiness elusive or do we simply not know the way to happiness? Happiness is yours for the taking. Anyone can be happy if they choose to be provided they find the way to happiness.

What is the way to happiness? Here are a few thoughts to get you on your way.  Do not try to control circumstances. Many people are unhappy and frustrated because of circumstances gone awry. The first thing you should do to be on your way to happiness is let go. Don’t take responsibility for circumstances that are out of your control. The only thing you can control in this world is yourself.

The next step for being on your way to happiness is to live your life so that others are touched and benefited. Though we control our lives, we should try to live for the betterment of others. This will give you happiness beyond the realm of your imagination.

Finally, each one of us has different desires, needs and aim in life. The key to achieving this is to know what you want your financial state to be like. Having bad or poor finances is a major cause of unhappiness. To be on your way to happiness, get your finances right and eliminate as much debt as possible.

A way to happiness is yours for taking should you want to. Build your life in such a way so that you can experience more happiness than you can handle!

Let us be happy!

October 5th, 2006

Be Happy!Be Happy!

Welcome to my ‘Happy Essence’ Blog!

Are you feeling stressed? Unhappy that things are not going your way? As you watched the news on television, do not you feel more depressed watching all sorts of disasters, war, fighting and such. Is our world becoming untenable for people to be happier that we can’t show more love than hate?

I decided to do a blog to focus on happiness. It may not change the world but hopefully it can give you some source of inspiration or information to make our lives happier and fun to live in!

Ultimate happiness lies in your mind. With a happy and positive attitude you can be happy in very difficult circumstances too. There is no point in worrying for past things and things to come. Happiness is the aim of our lives. We all want to be happy and may call happiness by different names: Bliss, Nirvana or Paradise. They are all one and the same.

Happiness is a state of mind which can be induced by many means. Some give us short term happiness while others give long lasting happiness. Most of us will be happy by making steady towards meaningful goals. These goals vary from person to person.

Success lies behind the fact that these goals have a meaning to us. They are important and hence valuable. However, we should ensure that there is a balance in our goals. We should not endeavor only for wealth while neglecting our health and family. If we do that, we will soon realize that this goal of attaining wealth actually does not lead to happiness.

To be happy you need to keep setting meaningful goals for yourself. Happiness will grow as you see yourself making progress. Being without a goal after achieving your earlier ones will adversely affect your happiness. To be happy you will have to set new goals for yourself in different areas of your life.

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